How Well Do You Know Me? Couples Quiz
Set your answer on a slider, then see how close your partner’s guess lands.
- Time
- 10–20 min
- Players
- Two players, taking turns
- Best for
- Testing how well you know each other
- Deck
- 32 questions on a 0 to 10 scale
How the couples quiz works
- The card says whose answer it is. That person drags the slider to their honest answer while the other looks away.
- Tap “Lock it in”. The slider glides back to the middle, so the answer stays hidden.
- The other one drags the slider to a guess and taps “Reveal”. Both marks appear together.
- Talk about the gap, then tap “Next question”. You take turns answering.
When to take the quiz
It is easy to assume you know each other’s answers. The quiz makes you commit to a number before you hear the truth, and because the answer is set first and hidden, the reveal is honest.
Coffee date
Five questions each, one coffee, and a surprisingly long conversation about breakfast.
Anniversary
Fifteen questions, taking turns, and a few surprises about the last year.
New relationship
Five questions is enough. The gaps tell you what to ask next.
Playing it well
No peeking, no coaching
The answer is hidden until the reveal, but the game cannot stop someone reading over a shoulder. Look away while the other one sets the slider.
Take turns
Answering and guessing swap every question, so you both get to be surprised and you both get to explain.
Talk about the gaps
A guess three or four points away is the best part of the game. Ask what made the number higher or lower than expected.
Tips
- Ten questions is a good length for one sitting. Five makes a warm-up.
- Play it again in a few months. The questions are the same, but some answers will not be.
The questions in the quiz
All 32 questions, each answered on a scale from 0 to 10. The person answering sets their honest number first; the other one guesses.
The questions
Each is answered on a scale from 0 to 10. The quiz deals them in a random order.
- How much do I love surprises?0 Not at all · 10 Love them
- How much of a morning person am I?0 Night owl · 10 Up with the sun
- How tidy am I, honestly?0 Happy chaos · 10 Everything in its place
- How adventurous am I with food?0 Keep it simple · 10 I’ll try anything
- How much do I enjoy being the center of attention?0 Hide me · 10 Spotlight, please
- How competitive am I when we play games?0 Just for fun · 10 I play to win
- How much do I like planning trips in detail?0 Let’s wing it · 10 Spreadsheet ready
- How much do I love dancing?0 Not my thing · 10 Anywhere, anytime
Show all 32 the questions cards
- How much do I miss home when I travel?0 Not at all · 10 A lot
- How much do I enjoy cooking?0 Takeout forever · 10 Chef mode
- How important is alone time to me?0 Rarely need it · 10 Essential
- How spicy do I like my food?0 Mild, please · 10 Bring the fire
- How chatty am I first thing in the morning?0 Not yet · 10 Full sentences
- How big a deal are birthdays to me?0 Just another day · 10 A week of celebrating
- How easily do I cry at movies?0 Never · 10 Every time
- How much do I enjoy long phone calls?0 Keep it short · 10 Hours, happily
- How much do I like trying new hobbies?0 Stick with what I know · 10 Always something new
- How much do I love the beach?0 Not for me · 10 Paradise
- How calm am I in traffic?0 Not very · 10 Completely zen
- How much do I enjoy big parties?0 Small groups, please · 10 The bigger the better
- How likely am I to sing along in the car?0 Never · 10 Every single drive
- How much of an animal person am I?0 From a distance · 10 All of them, now
- How romantic do I think I am?0 Practical · 10 Hopeless romantic
- How much do handwritten notes mean to me?0 Nice enough · 10 I keep every one
- How much do I enjoy cold, snowy weather?0 Please, no · 10 Bring on the snow
- How much do I like scary movies?0 Too scary · 10 The scarier the better
- How good am I at keeping a surprise secret?0 It slips out · 10 A vault
- How much do I love a lazy evening on the couch?0 I get restless · 10 Perfect evening
- How much do I like sleeping in on weekends?0 Up early anyway · 10 Until noon
- How spontaneous would I be on a trip abroad?0 Guidebook and hotel · 10 Backpack and no plan
- How much do I enjoy picking out gifts?0 Not my strength · 10 My favorite thing
- How comfortable am I holding hands in public?0 Prefer not · 10 Anywhere, always
Frequently asked questions
How does the scoring work?
After each reveal the card shows how far apart the guess landed, from spot on to a few points away. It keeps a light count of questions and spot-on guesses for this visit, nothing more.
Does the quiz say anything about our compatibility?
No. It shows how close one guess landed on one question, nothing more. Treat every gap as a conversation starter, not a diagnosis.
Can we play with our own questions?
Not inside the quiz. The questions page on this site has 120 open-ended prompts if you want to keep going after the quiz.