How Well Do You Know Me? Couples Quiz
Set your answer on a slider, then see how close your partner’s guess lands.
- Time
- 10–20 min
- Players
- Two players, taking turns
- Best for
- Coffee dates and anniversaries
- Deck
- 60 questions on a 0 to 10 scale
How the couples quiz works
- The card says whose answer it is. That person drags the slider to their honest answer while the other looks away.
- Tap “Lock it in”. The slider glides back to the middle, so the answer stays hidden.
- The other one drags the slider to a guess and taps “Reveal”. Both marks appear together.
- Talk about the gap, then tap “Next question”. You take turns answering.
When to take the quiz
It is easy to assume you know each other’s answers. The quiz makes you commit to a number before you hear the truth, and because the answer is set first and hidden, the reveal is honest.
Coffee date
Five questions each, one coffee, and a surprisingly long conversation about breakfast.
Anniversary
Fifteen questions, taking turns, and a few surprises about the last year.
New relationship
Five questions is enough. The gaps tell you what to ask next.
Ways to play
Say why before the reveal
Before tapping “Reveal”, the guesser explains the number out loud. Hearing the reasoning first turns any gap into a story.
Then and now
Answer as you were the year you met, and guess that version of each other. The same questions work just as well looking back.
Talk about the gaps
A guess three or four points away is the best part of the game. Ask what made the number higher or lower than expected.
Tips
- A question that does not fit you? Tap “Skip this one”. Skipped questions are not counted.
- Play it again in a few months. The questions are the same, but some answers will not be.
All 60 how well do you know me questions for couples
Every question in the quiz, with what 0 and 10 mean for each. The quiz deals them in a random order.
- How much do I love surprises?0 Not at all · 10 Love them
- How much of a morning person am I?0 Night owl · 10 Up with the sun
- How tidy am I, honestly?0 Happy chaos · 10 Everything in its place
- How adventurous am I with food?0 Keep it simple · 10 I’ll try anything
- How much do I enjoy being the center of attention?0 Hide me · 10 Spotlight, please
- How competitive am I when we play games?0 Just for fun · 10 I play to win
- How much do I like planning trips in detail?0 Let’s wing it · 10 Spreadsheet ready
- How much do I love dancing?0 Not my thing · 10 Anywhere, anytime
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- How much do I miss home when I travel?0 Not at all · 10 A lot
- How much do I enjoy cooking?0 Takeout forever · 10 Chef mode
- How important is alone time to me?0 Rarely need it · 10 Essential
- How spicy do I like my food?0 Mild, please · 10 Bring the fire
- How chatty am I first thing in the morning?0 Not yet · 10 Full sentences
- How big a deal are birthdays to me?0 Just another day · 10 A week of celebrating
- How easily do I cry at movies?0 Never · 10 Every time
- How much do I enjoy long phone calls?0 Keep it short · 10 Hours, happily
- How much do I like trying new hobbies?0 Stick with what I know · 10 Always something new
- How much do I love the beach?0 Not for me · 10 Paradise
- How calm am I in traffic?0 Not very · 10 Completely zen
- How much do I enjoy big parties?0 Small groups, please · 10 The bigger the better
- How likely am I to sing along in the car?0 Never · 10 Every single drive
- How much of an animal person am I?0 From a distance · 10 All of them, now
- How romantic do I think I am?0 Practical · 10 Hopeless romantic
- How much do handwritten notes mean to me?0 Nice enough · 10 I keep every one
- How much do I enjoy cold, snowy weather?0 Please, no · 10 Bring on the snow
- How much do I like scary movies?0 Too scary · 10 The scarier the better
- How good am I at keeping a surprise secret?0 It slips out · 10 A vault
- How much do I love a lazy evening on the couch?0 I get restless · 10 Perfect evening
- How much do I like sleeping in on weekends?0 Up early anyway · 10 Until noon
- How adventurous am I with food when we travel?0 Stick to what I know · 10 Order the strangest thing
- How much do I enjoy picking out gifts?0 Not my strength · 10 My favorite thing
- How comfortable am I holding hands in public?0 Prefer not · 10 Anywhere, always
- How early do I like to get to the airport?0 Cutting it close · 10 Hours early
- How much do I want advice when I’m venting?0 Just listen · 10 Help me fix it
- How much of a sweet tooth do I have?0 Savory all the way · 10 Dessert first
- How many browser tabs do I keep open?0 Just one · 10 Too many to count
- How much do spoilers bother me?0 Spoil away · 10 Don’t you dare
- How likely am I to strike up a chat with a stranger?0 Polite nod · 10 Instant new friend
- How much do I love soft, cozy lighting?0 All the lights on · 10 Lamps and candles
- How likely am I to ride the biggest roller coaster?0 Feet on the ground · 10 Front row, hands up
- How much do I like being looked after when I’m worn out?0 Let me hibernate · 10 Fuss over me
- How much do I pack for a short trip?0 One small bag · 10 Ready for anything
- How protective am I of the food on my plate?0 Help yourself · 10 Hands off my fries
- How much background noise do I like while I focus?0 Total silence · 10 Café buzz
- How much do I love a good pun?0 Spare me · 10 Keep them coming
- How full do I like my weekends to be?0 Wide open · 10 Booked solid
- How much do I still love the songs from my teens?0 Rarely play them · 10 Still my anthems
- How often do I rearrange my space?0 Hardly ever · 10 Every few weeks
- How long does it take me to choose from a menu?0 Instant pick · 10 Ask me last
- How likely am I to read the instructions first?0 I’ll figure it out · 10 Read every page
- How attached do I get to a favorite mug?0 Any cup will do · 10 Only that one
- How much do I want a pep talk before a big day?0 Let me focus · 10 Hype me up
- How hard would I try to speak the local language abroad?0 Point and smile · 10 Phrasebook in hand
- How much does a walk help me clear my head?0 Not my reset · 10 Works every time
- How much of a bookworm am I?0 Not a big reader · 10 Always mid-book
- How often do I share random facts I’ve just learned?0 Hardly ever · 10 Every chance I get
- How much do I like having plants around?0 No plants needed · 10 A little jungle
- How many emojis do I put in a text?0 None, ever · 10 A whole row
- How big a sports fan am I?0 Who’s playing? · 10 Never miss a game
- How long could I happily work on a jigsaw puzzle?0 Five minutes, tops · 10 Until the last piece
Frequently asked questions
Does the quiz keep score?
Only lightly. After each reveal the card shows how far apart the guess landed, and a small line counts questions and spot-on guesses for this visit. There is no total score.
Does the quiz measure our relationship?
No. Each reveal shows how close one guess landed on one question. Treat every gap as something to talk about, not a verdict.
Can we play with our own questions?
Not inside the quiz. To keep talking, try Questions for Couples: 120 open-ended cards.